" /> How to Recognize, Handle, and Recover from Toxic and Abusive Relationships in Dating, Marriage, and Co-parenting Relationships - Chloe M. Gooden

“I feel like I’m suffering.” ….”I feel so unstable.”…..”I’m scared to leave.” ….”I feel crazy & confused.”

Have you found yourself expressing these exact sentences to describe how you feel in your current relationship? I’ve been there, and my guest, Michelle Donnelly, has been there too. ..It drains you mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. We know how it feels. We know the many nights of crying and pain. We know you feel stuck. We know you feel hopeless. We know you are hurting. We know you are tired.

 

Chloe M. Gooden

The Break Up: How to Let Go of Your Ex, Heal, Forgive, and Move Forward

The Break Up explores the many seasons of emotions, thoughts, and reactions that take over us in a recent break-up or divorce. Hurting from a recent break-up or divorce? Unsure how to process the pain? Struggling to forgive and let go? I’ve been through many break-ups and divorces. It’s hard. It’s a process. It takes plenty of patience and a lot of God’s help. But, you will get through this, and I hope to walk beside you as God heals and comforts you in this process. I’ve learned how to heal, forgive, and let go so I can walk in the beautiful life God has in store for me. I desire the same for you, and I’m here to help you navigate this difficult season, so you can let go of your ex, heal, forgive, and move forward. 

  • Let go of your ex.
  • Walks you through the process of healing and forgiveness.
  • Understand and process your array of emotions, thoughts, and feelings.
  • Recognize and understand your reactions to the break-up.
  • Avoid common pitfalls during the process of letting go and moving forward.
  • Reveals how God is turning your pain into a purpose.
  • Gives you, applicable, next steps of letting go.

When Rejection Hurts: How to Handle Rejection in Life, Dating, and Relationships

Didn’t get the job you were hoping for? Still haven’t gone out on a date and you’ve been on that dating site for months? Finding yourself signing divorce papers even though you gave them all you had for years?

Rejection. No one likes it. It hurts. It’s uncomfortable. It makes you want to crawl up in your bed and eat ice cream, cry, and snuggle up with your pet, kiddos, or childhood stuffed animal, that make you feel loved unconditionally. Rejection is sadly apart of life and no matter what you do; you can’t prevent it nor avoid it.

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Saturday Mornings with Chloe: Is it really a big deal for me to stop sinning since I’m saved? 🤷🏽‍♀️

Is it really that big of a deal for me to stop this sin since I’m saved? 🤷🏽‍♀️ I mean, God knows my heart, right? . Is it really that big of a deal if I keep doing this? 👀 …. I mean, Jesus died for my sins, and I’m saved, so I should be good, right? Like, Heaven is a guarantee soooooo what’s the big deal? 🤔🧐 Hmmm, Let’s talk about that…

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How to Deal with Loneliness: When Loneliness Comes Knocking At Your Door

Loneliness can feel like one of the worst feelings when we experience it. It can affect us to the point that the decisions we make to fill that void; we often regret.
Loneliness can also be a blessing to reconnect with God and have an even stronger relationship with him. God is always with us, and his love and mercy will never fail. He listens to you, he loves you and will comfort you in the midst of it. Stand firm, praying; with faith that in due time, God will send you the right person that he has prepared for you in His will. However, never think that a mate will fill the void of your loneliness. That is not the answer. God is always the answer.
Do not feel bad about that feeling of wanting to have someone in your life, that a man and a woman are united is the will of God. In Genesis, God saw that Adam had a need for companionship and he gave Adam his helpmate; Eve. God sees your need as well and will fulfill it His way and in His time.

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