" /> How to Recognize, Handle, and Recover from Toxic and Abusive Relationships in Dating, Marriage, and Co-parenting Relationships - Chloe M. Gooden

“I feel like I’m suffering.” ….”I feel so unstable.”…..”I’m scared to leave.” ….”I feel crazy & confused.”

Have you found yourself expressing these exact sentences to describe how you feel in your current relationship? I’ve been there, and my guest, Michelle Donnelly, has been there too. ..It drains you mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. We know how it feels. We know the many nights of crying and pain. We know you feel stuck. We know you feel hopeless. We know you are hurting. We know you are tired.

 

Chloe M. Gooden

The Break Up: How to Let Go of Your Ex, Heal, Forgive, and Move Forward

The Break Up explores the many seasons of emotions, thoughts, and reactions that take over us in a recent break-up or divorce. Hurting from a recent break-up or divorce? Unsure how to process the pain? Struggling to forgive and let go? I’ve been through many break-ups and divorces. It’s hard. It’s a process. It takes plenty of patience and a lot of God’s help. But, you will get through this, and I hope to walk beside you as God heals and comforts you in this process. I’ve learned how to heal, forgive, and let go so I can walk in the beautiful life God has in store for me. I desire the same for you, and I’m here to help you navigate this difficult season, so you can let go of your ex, heal, forgive, and move forward. 

  • Let go of your ex.
  • Walks you through the process of healing and forgiveness.
  • Understand and process your array of emotions, thoughts, and feelings.
  • Recognize and understand your reactions to the break-up.
  • Avoid common pitfalls during the process of letting go and moving forward.
  • Reveals how God is turning your pain into a purpose.
  • Gives you, applicable, next steps of letting go.

What To Do When He Won’t Commit

You’ve been dating for 3 years and he still isn’t ready for commitment….You’ve been with him to family reunions, weddings, graduations and have met all his friends. You even cook together sometimes and talk every night. But, he doesn’t see you as more than a friend?…You’ve been living together for 5 years, but he fears getting married because his parents had an ugly divorce….You’ve had kids, live together and even have a promise ring, but he still isn’t’ ready for marriage?……Sounds familiar? ….What can you do in this situation? How can you get out of your current mess and also prevent yourself from getting into this type of mess in the future?

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4 Dangers of Being Desperate for Marriage

I’ve always wanted to be a wife and mother since childhood. I played house, fed my fake baby doll and cooked meals in my easy bake oven with pride and enthusiasm. I loved it. I couldn’t wait for the day to become a Mrs. and mother. However, somewhere along my life, this desire turned into an obsession and my actions portrayed desperation. How did this happen? How did such a natural and innocent desire turn into idolization? How can you know if your desire has actually turned into desperation? I hope in this “Convos with Chloe” you not only see the dangers of being desperate for marriage but why you feel this way and how to have a healthy balance in your desire for marriage

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Dealing With A Recent Break Up?

Breakups can be rough. The ups and downs of emotions. The wondering why they left you or why you had to let them go. I definitely understand. Below, I have put together some resources to help you during this trying time in your life. I pray they encourage, uplift and educate you on the best way to deal with your recent Breakup.

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